Honest conversations. Deeper orgasms. Stronger relationships.

I’m Ashley Manta, ABS Certified Sexologist & 2020 XBiz Sexpert of the Year.

I help smart, self-aware humans stop settling and start building sex and relationships that feel honest, alive, and deeply satisfying.

THIS IS FOR YOU IF…

Your sex life looks “okay” from the outside, but inside it feels:

• Stuck in the same few positions, scripts, and fights

• Full of desire mismatch, misunderstandings, or mixed signals

• Great on vacation but awkward, tense, or numb at home

• Complicated by non-monogamy, lifestyle dynamics, or broken trust

• Buried under shame, anxiety, or “I should be over this by now”

You are not broken. You were never taught how to do this.

Sex, intimacy, and communication are skills. We can build them.

WHAT WE DO TOGETHER

When we work together, we focus on:

• Real communication:
  Saying the thing you’ve been editing in your head for months without blowing up the relationship.

• Nervous system safety:
  Moving from shutdown, panic, or people-pleasing into grounded, present, turned-on.

• Desire and pleasure:
  Mapping what actually lights you up, not what you think you’re “supposed” to want.

• Relational clarity:
  Monogamous, open, lifestyle, polyamory…we get honest about what works for you, not just what you used to want.

• Repair and rebuilding:
  When there’s been rupture, resentment, or betrayal, we look at what it would actually take to rebuild trust.

This is not about performing pleasure. It’s about building a sex life and relationship dynamic that feels sustainable, nourishing, and hot for both of you.

WAYS TO WORK WITH ME

1. Private Coaching (Individuals & Couples)

Bespoke support over Zoom, wherever you are in the world.
We can work on:

• Desire differences and “we’re never on the same page”

• Pain, anxiety, or shut down around sex

• Non-monogamy and lifestyle agreements that actually work

• Rebuilding intimacy after affairs, breakups, or big life changes

• Turning long-term relationships from “good roommates” back into lovers

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2. Speaking, Workshops & Events

I create custom talks and workshops for:

• Resorts and cruises

• Colleges and universities

• Lifestyle events and kink communities

• Bachelorette parties and girls’ trips

• Sex shops, retreats, and conferences

Topics include pleasure, consent, communication, group play, non-monogamy, and more.
If you want an event that’s fun, explicit, and grounded in real ethics, that’s my sweet spot.

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3. On-Demand Classes

Elevated Intimacy Academy

Prefer to learn on your own time, in your own bed?

Elevated Intimacy Academy is my online learning portal with workshops you can watch anytime. Expect:

• Practical skills you can use tonight

• No shame, no fluff, no twelve-step goddess initiations

• Tools for dirty talk, pleasure mapping, communication, and more

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START HERE, FREE

If you’re curious but not ready to dive into coaching yet, start with my free stuff:

• Substack: personal stories, education, and honest essays about sex, love, non-monogamy, and power. You can read my posts from the past three months for free. Subscribe to support my work!
  Read my Substack

• Dirty Talk Quick Start Guide (Free):
  A short, practical guide to saying hotter things in bed without sounding like bad porn or a robot. Click here to access my Dirty Talk Guide